In 1977, at a star-studded reception hosted by record label executive Neil Bogart, Cher made an amusing faux pas that would lead to one of music’s most intriguing relationships. The legendary singer mistook KISS frontman Gene Simmons for British actress Jean Simmons – a mix-up that would soon blossom into a passionate two-year romance.
The night that changed everything
Despite the initial confusion, Cher found herself increasingly captivated by Simmons’ charismatic presence throughout the evening. The KISS rocker made quite an impression, returning the very next day bearing thoughtful gifts – KISS merchandise for Cher’s son, Chaz Bono, demonstrating his consideration extended beyond just romantic interests.
Their first official date at a Tubes concert nearly derailed their budding connection when Simmons divided his attention between Cher and her friend. However, his swift apology the following day revealed a vulnerability that would become characteristic of their relationship.
A modern romance ahead of its time
Breaking conventional relationship norms of the late 1970s, Cher and Simmons embraced an unconventional arrangement. While Simmons occasionally spent time with other women, and Cher sought companionship elsewhere, their emotional connection remained uniquely profound. Cher would later describe it as “the best relationship I’ve ever had with a human being.”
Their dedication to each other manifested in grand gestures. During a tour in Japan, Simmons racked up an astronomical $2,800 phone bill just to stay connected with Cher. It was during one of these long-distance calls that he first professed his love – remarkably early in their courtship.
An unexpected triangle forms
The relationship took an unexpected turn during a Christmas shopping excursion. While searching for the perfect gift for Cher, Simmons crossed paths with Diana Ross. What began as a chance encounter evolved into a connection that would ultimately reshape their romantic landscape.
In a twist worthy of a Hollywood script, Simmons found himself drawn to Ross, leading to the end of his relationship with Cher. The situation strained more than just their romantic bond – it permanently fractured the friendship between Cher and Ross, adding another layer of complexity to this already intricate tale.
Memories that stand the test of time
Despite the relationship’s dramatic conclusion, both Cher and Simmons have spoken fondly of their time together. Simmons referred to Cher as his “first love” and praised her as an “untainted soul,” while Cher maintained that among all her companions, Simmons was the only one she was truly “crazy about.”
Looking back at their whirlwind romance provides a fascinating glimpse into a time when two of music’s biggest personalities found an unexpected connection. Their story reminds us that sometimes the most meaningful relationships can arise from the most surprising beginnings – even a case of mistaken identity at a Hollywood party.